‘Essentially clear’, the report read,
but what did ‘essentially’ mean?
“Come back in a year!” the doctor said,
smiling a smile that implied
that she knew best
but what is best, I wondered? She said
“See if you can rest.”
I accept the categories of anxiety
that Paul Tillich described when struggling
to splint the German psyche
shattered with shame after the Holocaust.
Worry over purposelessness,
guilt and death, he said, mark our existence –
natural, unavoidable qualities of our lives as mortals,
of our separation from our essence –
the Ground of all Being, as he termed God.
Tillich’s explorations may not exactly resonate
but cancer of the breast feels like
a little holocaust. Captives in white gowns
with bald heads, we participate in trials of new drugs,
lie down for weeks of x-ray in dark bunkers.
We move in small spaces with high walls seeking peace,
with threats over summer holidays and seeing our grandkids grow.
So when six months passed, undressed,
I found a new lump, there was no further need
for puzzling adjectives like ‘essentially’.
The report was clear. “Next stage,” the doctor said
adding kindly, “See if you can rest.”
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